Revisiting the Cesspool of Online Dating

I decided to try to find my own Sebastian Stan instead of drooling so much over the real one. Well… Maybe my expectations are too high or maybe guys on dating apps just really do suck! Probably not just guys. Girls too. All the awkwardness, the immediate judgments. The stupid profiles and not knowing what to say. The fact that some people are looking for “the one” who they can marry and have a happily ever after, and the rest are looking for sex as soon as they can get it. I am looking for neither. Not right now and if I was looking for anything long term , I wouldn’t expect it to happen tomorrow. Everyone on there is in such a rush, and I just want to ease in slowly with no commitments to meet or to fall in love. I just want to get to know someone. Is that so hard?!